Transitions

Transitions are a part of life. At Bethel we are going through one of those transitions when Matt resigned as youth pastor and worship leader. There are good transitions and unfortunately many churches have suffered some very rough transitions. This transition though unexpected is not going to be a rough transition because Matt is leaving on good terms and we have some people in place who will be helping out to make this a smooth transition. The attitudes of those involved is one of the keys that will help us to continue to move forward with our ministries. I am thankful that change though can be hard, can also become a positive when everyone involved is seeking the good of the whole and not their own good. The lessons we are learning here at church can become life lessons for us in our personal lives as well. I am thankful that we do not experience life transitions every week or even every month but knowing what to do when they come will make them smoother. First, accept the fact that change is part of life. As hard as I may want life to remain as it is that is not possible. There are job changes, a moving to a new community, a death of a loved one, a prolong illness or any number life altering events. When I accept the change I then can begin to move forward to how life in reality is going to be and not how I may want it to be. Second, our attitude of thankfulness is vital because it will help us to keep the right perspective on the situation and a good attitude towards the person who is at the center of the change. Every now and again it is good to do an attitude check when there is any amount of stress in our lives and especially so when it involves change. Third, commit to do something positive in the midst of the transition. The example for us at church is not just to say good bye but to host a luncheon on their behalf and send them forth with a love gift and our prayers. Fourth, ask God for renewed strength for the new days that are on the horizon. With every new season in life we need fresh strength from the Lord so we are operating on His strength and not just our own. This is what we are doing in the transition here at church and if you will follow that model when a major transition happens in your life I believe you will find yourself a stronger person just as I believe we will become a stronger church not because Matt is leaving but because we are handling this transition in a God honoring manner.
May the God of a love and mercy overshadow your life.

Pastor John